Love's recovery...

Any boy or girl can tell you that he/she loves you but it takes a real man/woman to prove it. "I love you" is so easy to say but one should not use those words knowing they are not true. True love is unconditional, unrelenting and rewarding. Once it's given wholeheartedly, it will return to you in abundance. People sometimes ask why does love hurt so much but it doesn't. People hurt you not love. One of the worse things that you can do is be unfaithful to your partner and lie about it. You cannot allow him/her to learn the truth from someone else; that's a nail in your coffin! Coming clean shows that you acknowledge that you have made a mistake and want to be forgiven. Some say they lie to not hurt their partner but that doesn't help at all. It complicates things and does more harm than good.  If you have hurt your partner in anyway, you should make it your point of duty to make it up or try to make it up at all 'legal' cost. If you are not willing to fight to keep things together it simply means that you don't care and should simply move on. However, for the man/woman who wants to try and correct the wrong done, he/she has to work towards it. Also, you need to have patience in all of this. You need to allow time for healing which varies from person to person. You can't expect everything to return to normal within a month or even a year. A broken heart is fragile and takes time to be mended. Also, be open with your partner and do not do sneaky and secretive things that will awaken suspicion. No one is perfect but try your best to be honest, open and caring; put yourself in your partner's position..